Novice…

      Having a blog site is one of my dreams that I wanted to make… I just did a while ago. It’s one of my dreams and to be honest, I am new to this. I made my own blog because I want to share some of my knowledge and experiences to other people. I also wanted to help other people through my blogging. I’m quite nervous about starting because I’m in a foreign field, but I’ll try my very best to deliver a good blog that will be useful to people.

All I’m planning in my blog is to be genuine in every post that I’ll make. Anyway, I did this just for fun and for me to give people my genuineness to everything that I do, share and advice. To the people who will be my critiques and to the people who’ll just browse through my blogs, please bear with me… I am new to this, but I will do my best to share some good stuffs that will be useful for you.

     Thank you everyone and God Bless You all. (photo credit)

 

Take a S.I.P.

        They say “You will never fit in”, I say “I was not born to fit in, I was born to stand out.”

      Did you ever wonder about your purpose in this life? Did you ever feel that you are worthless because it seems that you can’t fit in to their lifestyle or maybe you don’t know what to do in your life? Did you feel like you’re an outcast because your perspective is different from everyone else’s perspective? And, did you ever think that maybe you should start to not care and just start to be the better version of yourself? If you feel all them, then we’re just the same.

      I felt all of them and many more but I realized that I just have to rest for a little bit and start to take a S.I.P., what is S.I.P?  Some may think a sip of coffee or drink, but no, it’s not a drink nor a coffee. S.I.P. stands for Self-Improvement Project, this project is not a self-improvement for other people’s benefit rather, for your future benefits. This project has 5 components:

1) God

           Talk to God. God is everything. When people starts to criticize you, God is always on your side. He has a plan for you and trust me, He will lead you to success.

Even when you are experiencing hurdles in life, never forget to thank Him. Always remember that everything is happening for a reason and that He won’t give you problems that you cannot overcome. Through thick and thin always be thankful to him. 

God can be your confidant in everything. Just trust Him and everything will be fine. You can turn to Him whenever you’re frustrated and I know that He will help you. Have faith, God is the most important component in your S.I.P.

2) Exercise
          Exercise is a very helpful component. When I say exercise, it doesn’t necessarily mean that you have to kill yourself in working-out or do a hard work out. A simple jog will do.

Exercise can help you think of the things that you wanted to do in life. It may also lessen your stress. Exercise can help you improve not just physically but also mentally and emotionally.

3) Passion

         Search for your passion. What is it that makes you excited and driven in life? What is it that you do that makes you want to persevere? Find your real passion. Your passion will help you fulfill your goals that some people tell you that you can’t achieve.

         By finding your passion, you can prove to your haters that nothing is impossible if you really love what you’re doing and maybe someday, they’ll see you living your life the way you want to while they envy your success. As I always tell myself, My Success is the best revenge for my haters.

4) Read

          When I say read, I don’t mean novels, although it’s fun to read novels, but what I meant about reading is that, after you found your passion, read some books that will help you enrich them, it maybe self-help books or business books, whichever is it, I know books will help you enrich your passions.

      Don’t limit yourself with just one book or one author. Browse through different genres of books and different authors, It will help you know more about stuffs in life. Reading will help you grow to be a better individual. It can be a great factor if you want to change your perspective in a lot of things.

5) Implementation and Humility

          After knowing yourself more, it’s time to take an action. Take one step at a time. Do the things that will let you grow more. Be a lover of learning. Your frenemy “laziness” can sometimes come, but if you are truly passionate and sincere about improving yourself, our frenemy will respect our decision and will leave us for a while to give us our time to be the better version of ourselves.

      Remember the journey in this project is not always in a happy route, there maybe a point where you just want to give up. There maybe a certain event that will make you doubt yourself more. Mostly, there will be a time that you’ll fail, but do not ever fret and give up. Remember that there is no such thing as failure, there is only winning or learning. After learning from a fall make sure to succeed in the next opportunity or just keep on learning then succeed, but always keep this in your mind: When you reach your goals and become successful in life, always be humble and keep your feet on the ground. Always think that you went there before so you don’t have the right to be an arrogant person because it will bring you back to where you came from, worst is that you will never get back up. 

 

      This is the project that I did to become the better me. I want to share this to you because it may help you to become the better version of yourself. When I decided to do this S.I.P. project, It was the lowest point of my life, where people say that I’m not good enough, that I will not succeed. It was the time when I saw myself different from them, that I am an outcast because my perspective is different from them. I did this project because I realized that I was doubting myself and it’s not healthy. I decided that my revenge will be my success and that if I can’t fit in, I will just stand out. And before I achieve what I want, I have to better myself so I made my move.

      Did I become successful? Yes I became successful, by being wiser and more knowledgeable than them. After my success, I stayed humble and now my critiques before are the ones who are seeking me for an advice and help to be the better versions of themselves, and now I am sharing this, hoping that it will help you a lot. God Bless everyone.